Love is in the air with Valentine’s Day…

Love, hearts, red roses, doves & cherubs. That’s what Valentine’s Day is all about these days. No sooner are we over Christmas when kitsch cards and gifts start to swarm the supermarket shelves when we get Valentine’s Day goodies shoved down our throats…



Call me a cynic, but I don’t particularly love it when red and pink are shoved in my face (at the same time, no doubt). But Valentine’s Day really is a money-making scheme! Here’s a hint: Don’t ever get married on or around Valentine’s Day if you’re on a tight budget!

I want to discuss the origin of Saint Valentine’s Day or Valentine’s Day as it’s commonly known…
In 313 A.D. Roman Emperor Constantine the Great legalized Christianity and ended Rome's persecution of Christians. In 380 A.D. Christianity is made the OFFICIAL state religion of the Roman Empire. These actions not only enabled the teachings of Christianity to spread unhindered within the empire, it encouraged non-Christians to convert to the once-persecuted religion.
The day is named after one or more early Christian martyrs named Valentine and was established by Pop Gelasius i in 500AD. However, it was deleted from the Roman calendar of Saints in 1969 by Pope Paul Vi, but its religious observance is still permitted. It is traditionally a day on which lovers express their love for each other by presenting flowers, offering confectionery and sending greeting cards which are known as valentines.

This day first became associated with romantic love in the circle of Geoffrey Chaucer (whom was an English poet and author) in the High Middle Ages, when the tradition of courtly love flourished. Hand written valentines only came about in the 19th century.

So instead of wasting money on roses and silly kitsch gifts, rather put that money aside and pack a picnic and go on a hike instead. If you’re not into the exercise idea, then stay in with your loved one and have a picnic in the comfort of your own lounge spending the night telling them what you truly love about them. If single, then round up your friends and go for dinner, share with your friends what you love about them.

Happy Valentine’s Day everyone!